So upset. Am I wrong for not letting him go?
Ok a little back story. I am 26 wks pregnant so very emotional and I have a four year old DS. My brother and SIL are users. They move from place to place draining people of everything they have. They have 2 kids 11, 2. I live an hour from where we grew up and my mom lives 5 hours away in a different state. Last September they moved to my town and within months they had stole money from both my pastor ($100) and my best friend ($300). I kept my distance but still let my son go over there because he loved his uncle and cousins. In Feb. things came to a blow between us when they got mad and told me I need to come get my "F**king kid" So after that I decided it wasnt worth it anymore. The whole 10 yrs they have been married my mom has had problems with them they start fights and will blow up if my mom doesnt give them waht they want. Even to the point that my mom has bought my brother drugs.
So anyways I found out 4 days ago that packed up and moved in with my mom which is supposed to be temporary. Apparently they told my mom they would stay in a motel only to get there and not have money for a motel. So I have been back and forth with my mom because I had to find this out on m,y own, she lied when I asked where they were staying. Next month my son is supposed to go visit my mom for 2 weeks. He goes every summer and really looks forward to it. I told my mom I didnt want him around them which she then told me they were living in a motel not with her. So now I feel I can't trust my mom. I know if I don't let him go he will be heartbroken but I'm not sure I can deal with her lies and his problems. I have been crying for days about this. My mom is supposed to be here in September when the baby is born so he will be able to see her then. I just dont know what to do.