wow Things have been going so good lately hubby and I got into a little arguement a bout a month ago right before work. My 4 year old girl decided she would not get dressed and laughed at me when I asked her to get dressed. I gave her a swat on the bottom and put her on the couch. I was so upset. Well tonight I asked her to come and get a shower and she looked at me and said "don't hurt me mommy" I fell to pieces.. She has been a little booger all day but I was not mad or anything. I was shocked. I went to take a band-aid off and she started screaming. I thought I accidently scratched her but she kept saying that I was hurting her. I started reading an sarticle online about children forgiving parents/ well it said that "THEY DO NOT FORGIVE PARENTS!" I am freaking out right now. What do I do? For discipline I have started using the 1-2-3 Magic. been using that since the last month got amazing results. I am so scrared that my children will hate me. Help. Me please.