OK, so my ex husband decided that when our youngest son was 3, he wanted the boys to live with him. My son was pretty well potty trained and was doing good at night. 2yrs later they come and live with me again. My youngest was 5 and a half. He was having accidents right and left, 2, 3, sometimes 5 or 6 in a day. He peed the bed EVERY night! It's been a yr and a half now, and my son is 7 and he still has accidents. Sometimes 3 in a day, and pees the bed almost every night still. We have tried everything. I remind him every so often to go potty, but that only help so much if he's at school or away from me. Every night before me and my husband go to bed we wake my son up to go potty, he goes right before bed, we wont let him drink anything after a certain time and he STILL wets the bed almost every night!! Idk what to do anymore I'm so beyond frustrated that the other night I told him to just stop being lazy and go potty. (that's what a lot of family members thought, that he was just being lazy) but when I told him that it made him cry! I didn't say it in a mean or loud way, I just calmly said it to him.
What do I do now??