My sister is graduating from high school.... Big achievement and I feel as her sister I should be there to show my support. I'm annoyed that I was notified last minute of the day and time but due to miscommunication between my sister and brother I was not notified until tonight and it's tomorrow night at 6. Due to expected downpour a raindate of Sunday Is a possibility. I cannot attend tomorrow because of work but Sunday I could arrange. It will be such so awkward for me to attend because me and my mother have not talked for a little over a year. She has been angry with me because I sent her a letter that I was having a 1st birthday for my twin boys and I wanted her to come but that my dad would be there so if she couldn't deal with it I would understand if she didn't attend. Well she took it so to heart and has not spoken to me and has only seen her grandchildren maybe 3 or 4 times but not until the last few months and my brother had to walk them in. Well they just had there second birthday and I just had pizza and cake invited my brother he is 21 and lives with my mom and said it was to awkward and that they would have there own thing... It's been a month and nothing.... So for two years no one showed up to support my boys birthday. Ive decided that as hard as it will be I will hold my head high and go to my sisters graduation ... I am the oldest child and I feel that I should be there to support my sister and also to set an example that even though me and my mother aren't talking I'm still going to be there. My mom has been divorced 30 Years and can't stand my dad.... Some very bad things occurred between the two and it's just not fair that I have to be made to feel horrible for associating with my own father. I hope my brother and sister see that they can have there own mind and do the right thing and stop feeling like they have to be do loyal to my moms feelings.
on Jun. 22, 2012 at 1:11 AM