My husband has been spending late night in bars and not coming home until 4:30 in the morning.
The past 6 weeks he has done this, and we've fought like cats and dogs every time he comes home.
The straw that broke the camels back though was, I had $50 set aside for gas for him for work for the next two weeks, and some for our sons birthday present. He went to the bar and spent it all. Now he has no gas money for work, no one can take him to work, and he is treating ME like shit because of it.
I don't know what to do.
I've tried talking about it with him, and nothing!
Now he expects me to come up with money somehow for him. (i.e, call my parents or something)
Which, the funny part is, if I get him gas money he will probably spend half of it on ciggerettes.
He does not let me control the money. Any money we have goes on his card and I don't see it again unless I need to buy something.
Now - we have no gas, no money for our sons birthday present. For TWO WEEKS.
Now he wants to sell our big screen TV that I worked hard to get for us several years back!