I recently have been setting up playdates for my 2 year old daughter with a single father who also has a 2 year old daughter. We had been haveing 2-3 playdates a week for almost a month now until this single fathertold me his daughter always wants to touch his penis and so he let her. He assured me he only let her do it once and will never let her do it again. His exact words were "Well my daughter always wants to touch it, so I let her because she had to know what it is" In my opinion no 2 year old should be seeing there father naked, especially if she's started asking questions about it, let alone touching his penis. WHAT DO I DO? If it were my daughter in this situation I'd want someone to tell me. I feel I should tell the childs mother, but how? Also I'm in the middle of a child custody despute with my ex and I fear by telling her could messed up what I might have going for me in court. I'd feel absolutely horrible if something more happened to this little girl all because I didn't say anything. I do believe the father felt there was nothing wrong with what he was doing and that he was teaching her. However he was sexually abused as a child and that just makes you think more. Please help.