Should i be mad? Or was it just a bad day for me

I have been dealing with a cold or a sinus infection so i am not getting much sleep like i should. When i do get sleep i can only sleep about 2 hrs before i have a hard time breathing or wake up with a headache or cough. It sucks. Plus we had a long night friday night and last night at a wedding reception.
Any way get on with the story of today.
It started this morning with my husband Chris and i arguing over a iphone 4 that he was impaitent for. So i was sticking up for my friend while my husband was convincex that my friend doesnt have an iphone and leading him on to think. We fought for 10mins. I then go in the shower cuz i am sick of arguing with him. I come out and my kids who were up way past bed time from the reception was crabby to begin with. So after i got out if the shower, i was constantly saying no dont hit, dont bite, dont kick, play nice, dont push, putting kids in timeout. I finally had enough of the kids fighting and beating each other up i took Logan with me and left Haiden with chris.
I come back an hr and half later the kids are back at it fighting and beating each other up. The kids are 4.5 and 1.5
I make lunch. The kids ate. I ate husband choose not to cuz he was busy fixing a camera in Haidens room. After he got done fixing that the boys could go for their much needed nap cuz i was going crazy.
About 15mins before nap was over i called my neighbor to see if Haiden can go swimming with his best friend at my neighbors pool. They said yes he could.
So at 3pm i woke up Haiden and got his swimming suite on. Logan still asleep so i told Chris to wake him up at 3:30. So i leave with haiden, head to my neighbors. We stayed there seimming and running through sprinklers. I com back at 4 with Haiden and went back to my neighbors so my son coukd plsy with his best friend some more.
Before we left the second time, i left Chris in charge of Logan who is 1.5 years old. I said please check on him several times, he is locked in the living room. As i forgot i left thr boys baby books on the couch in the livibg room. Chris never checkec on Logan as hid WOW is more important. So i come back with haiden at 5pm, to cone find Logsn with his baby book and a page ripped out and a plastic part missing and several pics out if if. I pick up thr mess, and go to Chris and ask were you watching Logan. He said no why. I told him cuz he just ripped a page out of his baby book, and plastic where the pics go in. He said oh well then you shouldnt of put tge books in his reach. I was like really i left you in charge and i come home to my hard work keeping up tge baby books is ruined cuz you didnt check on him.
Now yes i should of put the baby book somewhere logan coukdnt get but i thought my husband would have it under contol.
Then my friend Austin came over with the iphone 4 my husband wants to buy from him around 5:45 pm and they were having troubles with the iphone. So i went to subway to get dinner at like 6:30when we normally eat at 4:30-5. So now we are over an hr and a half late for dinner. We start eating at 7:00pm, so at 7:15pm i stoppec eatibg, got the kids bath started, jammies downstairs. I bathe each kid, get the dressed, brush their teeth and tucked them in at 7:30 pm which is bed time. While i was doing all that, and cleaning up the kitchen Chris is downstairs, didnt even ask if i needed help when he knew damn well we were very behind. He finally came from the basement at 7:50 and said good night to tge boys. Whike he was doing that i was folding laundry.
He didnt help out at all and left me under stress. Sorry long but had to vent.