Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need advice and to vent at the sametime
Df is disabled and stays home. He isn't used to having 2 kids underfoot and the constant cleaning they require. He wants to go back to work. OK. He complains now that I need to help with the housework more now. I work. I offered to quit my job and he said his expectations would change if I was a SAHM. The 3 he listed was the house would have to be spotless at all times, the kids would have to leave him alone right after he got home, and I left the room with this one; I would be an unwilling sex kitten. Now why do I not have the same respect(except the last one)? I have to do dishes before work and after work some days. I have to fold and put all the laundry away. He wants me to do more housework. What is he doing all day? He should be keeping the house clean right now. You cant clean the living room,not touch it for days and expect it to be clean with an 8 and 2yo living with you. It took a lot for me to offer to quit my job. Its not a lot but I really like it and I have a lot of pride doing it. I also had a bad experience being a SAHM when dd was younger. He says he feels like a glorified housekeeper and is becoming depressed because of it.