Tonight my 6 yr old son and 3 yr old son were in the bathtub. My husband walked in and saw them laying on top of eachother in the tub. My 6 yr old was hard when he had my 3 yr old get out of the tub. When I asked what they were doing my 6 yr old said the were playing monkeys (the baby monkey is on the mommy monkeys stomach) and he said it felt good. He also told my husband that they play monkeys in the closet and in bed (they learned about Africa this week in VBS and I'm guessing this is where it is coming from. They have been running around the house making noises all week.) My husband is freaking out about this and now has me very concerned.
I asked the 6 yr old if anyone ever touched his private area and he told me "no only the dr when we are there for a checkup when mommy is in the room". We have had something like this happen before - they were in the tub together and were touching eachother, in hindsight we should really bathe them separate and we will from now on.
Should I be concerned about this? Is there anything I should do to make sure he hasn't been abused? I don't want to make him uncomfortable and feel like he cannot talk to me about anything in the future. Trying to find out if this is just curiosity or something I need to worry about.