What I mean is that she won't nap most of the time at daycare (they nap from noon til 2) but when I pick her up in the evening she's so tired she either falls asleep in the car on the way home or is so wound up til bedtime that she's hard to handle. On weekends she tends to do the same thing. She won't nap til around 4:30 and by then I can't allow her a full nap because I want her to go o bed on time.
How can I get her back on schedule? Because I work from home she doesn't have to get up super early. She's usually up by 7:30, fed by 8 am at daycare around 9:30-ish. She's picked up from daycare at 4 and given dinner by 6. She's also recently stopped eating very much. She eats breakfast fine, won't eat lunch at daycare and now reuses to eat any dinner except 2 or 3 bites.
I'm feeling like a terrible mom because the daycare teacher always tells me DD wouldn't eat anything except fruit at lunch and wouldn't nap. Any advice on how to get her back on schedule and eating again? Im getting desperate for advice so thanks in advance for any help/tips you can share.