so my mom took me out to see magic mike....first off let me say, that is NOTHING compaired to the porn he was watching, they rated it R beccause of the breasts that they show, and the drugs and etc....
well me and my mom start driving to the theater, and she goes on and on about how i'm not being a good enough wife, because i'm not getting after him about the military, and about how he hasn't done anything for the family and blah blah blah.....she thinks he needs to say sorry to her, and everyone else around for him hurting me....wrong, he, said sorry to ME, and that's all that counts....i broke down crying, because she no longer supports my marriage....and she has pretty muctproved and told me eariler that she would be happy if he moved out, or if we all moved out at the same time.
then she had the nerve to tell me that, if i didn't put my foot down, and talk to him more which is NONE of her business, justn'tbecause i don't hold a converstation in front of her doesn't mean i'm not having it, that she will open her mouth to him, and she honestly doesn't care if she hurts my feelings or his feelings, but she had the nerve to get pissed off at me for telling her to keep her god damn mouth shut.
the woman doesn't have a care in the world that i already feel like my marriage is suffering because we never have a date night with each other, never can do anything alone, if we want to have sex, it's just the boring old sex, and quiet because we aren't to e having sex in her house.....she doesn't even know that i'm so damn close to having a nervous breakdown that it's not even funny, she doesn't .ave a care in the world how depressed i truely am, she has no clue how badly i either want to slice my wrists because all she does is bitch about him not being gone already, or him working at mcdonalds, well that has changed...
sorry it got long, i'm just over her bullshit, and i can't wait to be out on our own.
I'm so sorry. You're right, y'all worked it out, no one else needs to be involved in the apologies or conversations.
Quoting Kiwismommy19:
I'm so sorry. You're right, y'all worked it out, no one else needs to be involved in the apologies or conversations.
i'm just over it....and like i have to wait to talk to him about anything until my mom leaves with addi tomorrow.
i'm so sick of being so depressed....i'm calling his recruiter, and my housing case worker.
That sounds like a good plan. I hope y'all are able to get out of there sooner rather than later.
Quoting Mom2Addison12:
Quoting Kiwismommy19:
I'm so sorry. You're right, y'all worked it out, no one else needs to be involved in the apologies or conversations.
i'm just over it....and like i have to wait to talk to him about anything until my mom leaves with addi tomorrow.i'm so sick of being so depressed....i'm calling his recruiter, and my housing case worker.
N seriously hope you were over exaggerating about ur wrists cuz if not go talk to someone. It can be depressing holding everything in!
I'm here if you ever need to talk!
Quoting Cpdsptchgrl:
I definitely need to move out of that place hun. I know this sucks right now and you are between a rock and a hard place but this clearly isn't a healthy environment for you guys. Definitely keep on the recruiter. From personal experience they like to take their time if someone doesn't keep a knee in their back.
i've been on them......the recruiter was like, well we can only do so much........i was like, bullshit dude........i'm sick and tired of doing this, the man has talked about this since i fucking met him at the age of 17....ill be calling him again on monday
Quoting Mom2Addison12:
Quoting Cpdsptchgrl:
I definitely need to move out of that place hun. I know this sucks right now and you are between a rock and a hard place but this clearly isn't a healthy environment for you guys. Definitely keep on the recruiter. From personal experience they like to take their time if someone doesn't keep a knee in their back.
i've been on them......the recruiter was like, well we can only do so much........i was like, bullshit dude........i'm sick and tired of doing this, the man has talked about this since i fucking met him at the age of 17....ill be calling him again on monday
im getting the urge again... (a little of a vent also)
- Mom2Addison12
on Jul. 7, 2012 at 4:04 AM