Quoting LuLuRex:I can understand how you feel. I wanted to have all my kids before I was 30 but things didn't work out that way. Sometimes life doesn't go exactly how you plan it, so just try to roll with it :)
I know my relationship will eventually lead to marriage, I have no doubt about that. He's everything I could've asked for. He loves me and my children & we all love him. I couldn't ask for more. He's my best friend, he's done so much for us already. I know we're going to get married.. we talk about it & he tells me he wants to marry me. So I know that's where its going I'm just being impatient. I'm no good with being patient.
Quoting DarlaHood:I am just really glad to see that you are thinking it through. You want a baby, but you want to have a good, stable situation with the right man before you do, and that is so FANTASTIC, and unfortunately, much more rare than it should be.
Are you feeling pressure because you really think this current relationship is not going to lead to where you know you want to go? Or are you just a little impatient about how long it might take?
If you know it's not the right relationship, perhaps that is making you feel anxious about how much time you want to spend in it. Or maybe you don't know yet. Just open yourself up to what you really want - whatever that looks like.
i know how you feel he doesnt want to get married we have been together 8 years with two kids now but things arent going well.
I hope things go good for you. It comes down to how important to you to get married before are you willing to not have a child for it. Not that im saying that will happen but if you are going to stick with the marriaage thing you have to be prepare that could happen.You still have some time so dont worry to much.
Let him know you dont want to have a child when you are 30
Quoting grouchymama:Enjoy your kids. I wanted to have my kids when I was young but, I didn't meet DH until I was 35. I am so glad I waited. It wouldn't have been the same without him:) You have plenty of time to wait until you and your boyfriend are both ready.




- xomissvee
on Jul. 10, 2012 at 4:48 PM