Hello, my name is maddy. I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first. I have recently moved in with my boyfriend because his family told me it was okay to stay there until we find a place to live, however due to the recession i don't see us getting a place anytime soon unless it is through the council.As soon as i moved in i knew i had to help out, i washed up, ironed and cleaned the house spotless so my boyfriends mother comes home and has nothing to worry about as i know she works so much! However no one else in this house seems to really care and doesn't feel they need to help out.
My boyfriend and his siblings never had displine as a child so they are very spoilt, have all the latest electronics etc. So they have always had someone to do stuff for them unlike me growing up my mother was a single parent didn't have alot of money so i did everything for myself.
The REAL concern of mine is that due to me overworking myself at home, i had light bleeding, so my midwife told me to relax and stay in bed and i will then be fine and that i've just overdone it. Which to me badly affected me as i thought the worst at the start so today i've explained to his mum and dad and they didn't seem to really listen. His sister however has just finished secondary school and starts college in september. I am in college atm and have regular courseworse and exams i need to study for, so i though great she will help out? nope she hasn't. I will come home from college around 3 and nothing will be done around the house, i will ask her to do it and it never gets done, i feel like i can't moan at her because i am a guest and she's not my sister. It just makes me think how selfish it is, knowing your brothers girlfriend is pregnant and cleaning up her mess all the time and yet she doesn't seem to care?
I'm so stressed out over this, i feel useless, it makes me want to cry coming home and seeing all this mess, constantly bending over, lifting heavy boxes and like the midwife said its not doing my anygood.
His family do not listen to me when i tell her my problems, they dont displine her and she just gets away with it, i don't know what to do about it anymore, there is no where else for me to go and i just can't put up with this anymore, my baby is far more important than some selfish 16 year old that is in her own little world!
Thank you for reading