Ok my bf has been txting my sister (who lives in another state) constantly. All day every day since about 2 weeks ago. Well theres times when i'm txting her and she wont text back for hours but at the same time shes texting him during those hours. Well he talks about her A LOT! Shes married btw. They both say they are just friends and dont talk dirty or hit on each other or anything but i seriously feel like my bf is falling for her. idk what to do. ive told him once before i dont like them texting so much and he said he would stop, then showed me a few of there texts and said see you can trust me. i dont hit on her or anything. so i just gave up a little but its really starting to bother me again. Were in the hospital cause we had our first (and last) baby together this week and the whole damn time hes texting her. what would you think? am i just paranoid?

It's a little wierd. I would talk to your sister too though. It's both of them.
If I were upsetting my DH becuase I was texting someone too much (even if it was innocent) I would stop because it's upsetting to him. I won't put any friendship before him. He comes first, period, and vice versa. Just because it's innocent, it's upsetting and bothersome to you and it needs to stop. If I were you, I'd tell him that he can either choose to keep texting her and upsetting you, or he can cut ties with her and resolve the problem. If she truly means nothing to him, that request should be a no brainer for him.
a woman instincts are rarely wrong..if u gotta question then do what u think is best for u..if she is your sister she should never even cross that line a text him anyways..



- Rjohnson6708
on Jul. 13, 2012 at 10:34 PM