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BF cheating?

Posted by on Jul. 13, 2012 at 10:34 PM
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Ok my bf has been txting my sister (who lives in another state) constantly. All day every day since about 2 weeks ago. Well theres times when i'm txting her and she wont text back for hours but at the same time shes texting him during those hours. Well he talks about her A LOT! Shes married btw. They both say they are just friends and dont talk dirty or hit on each other or anything but i seriously feel like my bf is falling for her. idk what to do. ive told him once before i dont like them texting so much and he said he would stop, then showed me a few of there texts and said see you can trust me. i dont hit on her or anything. so i just gave up a little but its really starting to bother me again. Were in the hospital cause we had our first (and last) baby together this week and the whole damn time hes texting her. what would you think? am i just paranoid?

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BensMom12412
by Member on Jul. 14, 2012 at 12:15 AM
I would definitely let him know it bothers your really bad, and talk to your sister. I know my DF had a chick he used to text constantly. Stay up till 5 in the morning talking to her all the time and everything. I told him it bothered me and he quit talking to her. Idk I'd definitely tell him it bothers you a lot.
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DarlaHood
by Bronze Member on Jul. 14, 2012 at 2:07 AM

It's a little wierd.  I would talk to your sister too though.  It's both of them. 

firefly1127
by Member on Jul. 14, 2012 at 9:40 AM
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Text her husband.. let him know & see what he thinks
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atlmom2
by Platinum Member on Jul. 14, 2012 at 9:58 AM
Sounds shady.
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budgie1117
by Bronze Member on Jul. 14, 2012 at 10:02 AM
See, this is what bothers me.....when you tell your significant other that something is upsetting to you (texting someone, going out too much, etc..) and they say "well, there's nothing going on, so what's the problem?"
If I were upsetting my DH becuase I was texting someone too much (even if it was innocent) I would stop because it's upsetting to him. I won't put any friendship before him. He comes first, period, and vice versa. Just because it's innocent, it's upsetting and bothersome to you and it needs to stop. If I were you, I'd tell him that he can either choose to keep texting her and upsetting you, or he can cut ties with her and resolve the problem. If she truly means nothing to him, that request should be a no brainer for him.
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SHORTSHORT
by Member on Jul. 14, 2012 at 10:12 AM

a woman instincts are rarely wrong..if u gotta question then do what u think is best for u..if she is your sister she should never even cross that line a text him anyways..

bbmkfo03
by Annemarie on Jul. 14, 2012 at 12:55 PM

 I'd talk to your sister & tell her all texting is getting inappropriate (not the content of the texts just the amount of texting going on) and you're not comfortable with it. Maybe ask her hubby what he thinks about this.

Pnukey
by Member on Jul. 14, 2012 at 4:10 PM

Sounds fishy.

raegan1221
by Bronze Member on Jul. 14, 2012 at 4:14 PM
That sounds crappy..I'd talk to both of them. Congrats in the new baby btw!,:)
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