One of my friends was complaining that her DH rarely feeds the baby. She is the one that gets up at night 2-3 times to feed him. It may get better because the baby is only 8 weeks old. He works FT and she is in school and works PT. Why can't he help out with the feedings? My ex was a very light sleeper and I am a deep sleeper. Many times he would get up to feed DD and I wouldn't even wake up. My mom said my dad was the same way. He was a very light sleeper too. He would be up feeding me and my mom wouldn't even know. Why are some men so stubborn?