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should i go threw with this or try something else??

Posted by on Jul. 15, 2012 at 10:30 PM
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My almost 4year old doesnt want a finding nemo  party anymore which is fine but my amzing little weird girly wants nightmare before christmas. She is a big tim burton fan even this young just like me and her dad she likes all the movies by him but her fav is night mare before christmas. her birthday is october 25th so super close to halloween but she's 4. My family is like your crazy to let her watch that and coraline and everything i told them it dont give her nightmares she loves it so just cause her kids are scared of every little thing doesnt mean my kid is... but no she is wanting a halloween party of nightmare befor christmas like jack cupcakes the trick or treaters i cant spell there name but she knows them all three of them... is this going to far i dont want my family on edge and nt come i think my 4 year old would feel really bad. She just not really into alot of princess stuff she is so youneek i love it but others are like wtf is wrong with you guys, my youngest is a total princess loves to take her purse and baby every where and totaly all for it my oldest likes those things too but not like my youngest. my oldest is like tomboy mixed with a little bit of girly girl?? any help?? 

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budgie1117
by Bronze Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 10:37 PM
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I say give the kid the party they want. It's not like it's nightmare on elm street!! This is silly, really. I think it's cool how her birthday is just before Halloween. Perfect timing!
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helema24
by on Jul. 15, 2012 at 10:43 PM
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give it to her she will feel so loved!

baxley2323
by Member on Jul. 15, 2012 at 10:43 PM

ya they were gonna induce me on halloween i aske them too cause they asked what date i would like cause i was already over due so they said we give ya the day before or day of halloween she came as soon as her came over for the weekend to be with me lol we werent living together at the time


Quoting budgie1117:

I say give the kid the party they want. It's not like it's nightmare on elm street!! This is silly, really. I think it's cool how her birthday is just before Halloween. Perfect timing!


Mom2Just1
by Mom2boys on Jul. 15, 2012 at 10:57 PM
Give her what she wants. Go through with her choice of party.
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lj.smommy
by Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 12:21 AM
I say let her have it! At that age I was totally into all that and would sneak up late just to watch horror movies like the haunted. (I blame my aunt for the corruption, since my parents were the country/ redneck type)

It's your daughters special day and the nightmare before christmas(also my fave!!) Is a good way to tone down a halloween party even for kids.

By the way my son is 2 and loves all those can't wait til frankenweenie comes out to take him to see it lol
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mrsmac521
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:00 AM

 I would do it.  But personally for a girl I would go with a Corpse Bride only because I would find more stuff for a girl.

mamakenzi
by Kenzi on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:47 AM
I would let her have it. Does she have friends that will be invited? If so I would explain that some kids may not come because of it.
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rayroe2
by Bronze Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:52 AM

 I mean it is Halloween so it goes great! they need to get over it! I love that movie it has nothing bad in it.

rayroe2
by Bronze Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:54 AM
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my dd is 8months and came Oct 30 =] I was so happy I didn't have a Halloween baby but she is a strange little thing I tell you!

rockabillybetty
by Bronze Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:58 AM
Do it momma!! Ur daughter is awsum!! Im huge on Tim Burton so are my kids son6 and 4daughter my family is also into Halloween and "weirdness" its not really up to others wat ur kids are watching if they love it leave it! Lol the trick or treaters are Lock Shock And Barrel from Nb4xmas. Sounds fun! I let my kids choose clothes shoes stuff for their room bday themes . Make each bday count wat matters is ur daughter has a great n happy bday! Bfs sisters n mom are always like why u dress ur kids like that etc but our response is WATS IT TO YA!? Lol my bf n i are rocknroll n rockabilly out n do wat makes us happy who cares wat others think. Difference and independence is key! GL MESSEGE ME IF U NEED SITES IN FINDING PARTY STUFF my step ma knows great places
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