Who thinks it's ok for a 12 yr old boy & girl**UPDATE**
Who thinks it's ok for a 12 yr old boy and girl to be in the bedroom watching a movie,while lying and or sitting on the bed ? With the door shut ?
The reason I asked , my 2 daughters were over at a neighbors house dad was home but mom hadnt made it home yet.When mom came home she said she went to daughters room and 2 boys were in the room along with the girls watching a movie .She was mad DH allowed it , as i was also .Now my daughters 10 and 12 have never kissed,hugged etc a boy .They have hugged male cousins yes but has far as "boyfriends" never.Now they are reguler girls of course they have crushes but thats about as far as it goes.We teach our daughters to respects themsevles.We dont allow short shorts, short tops or clevage showing.Not that they try to do any of these things.They are pretty good kids.However as I was explaining to my oldest daughter cause she really didnt think she did anything wrong I told her it was not ok to be in a bedroom with boys even if other people are there or not . It's not lady like etc etc I could go on and on but hopefully my point came acorss to everyone on CM .I wanted to see eveyone elses point of view .