my intuetion tells me

Normally I would say if you have reason to think he is then he probably is.
Do you have any other reason to think this other than the work hours and the lack of intimacy between you?

Have you looked at his check stubs and do they match up with what he's telling you? Also, have you tried nicely telling him how you feel? Tell him what you just told us and see if he starts trying a little harder to reconnect.

his attitued,he used to leave me the car sence we have to an suv and a honda but he dicides out of no where to take the bigger car and the car keys wit him,he dont like to talk bout the baby or even feel her move,he never wonts to go out wit me anymore when ma oldiest son has soccer games he dont ask if i am going or wont to go he just has ma son get ready and leaves or if he is going to the store to get wat ever i need and i ask him to do a run to the store he never wonts to take any of the kids he tells them he is leaving to work. no i havent but i am going to start taking note on his hours and then compare them to his stub cause this last check he got was like $900.00 when and to weeks ago it was $1,300

This. If the hrs don't match up then there Ya go. I've learned that if you ever need to question this then there must be a legit reason why. GL

Quoting ColorMeCrazy:

Have you looked at his check stubs and do they match up with what he's telling you? Also, have you tried nicely telling him how you feel? Tell him what you just told us and see if he starts trying a little harder to reconnect.

 I'd sit down and talk with him about what's going on and how you feel. See how he reacts to it.

yea i guess well i am going to start writing them down and see wat happens cause its driving me nuts i hate this u guys to tell u the truth cause i went though it with ma parents.when i was 7 mnths he asked to go our godsons patents how to dring with our godsons dad and a cuzen and a few hours later he called me and asked me to pick them up cause they all wonted to go to the bar but on the way to the bar that he always goes to he asked to go to this other plays and i have hurd that,that place is really durty but left him there i trustd ma husbend well i still do a lil andihad to pick him up at 2;30 am so when i get there he was coming out wit the cuzen but the cazen was wit another women and he is married so then the cazen stayed behind and ma husbend started walkin tords are car and the lady to her car and she waited for ma husbend and pulled him by his wrist tryong to hold his hand to get him in her car so i got of and got in a fight eit her in the parking lot and bet the shit out of her cause he said that she had sone it not him but then i thought well how about if inside the bar they where together so two weeks later the same thing happend he didnt come home and his mom had his sister and me go look for him and guess where we found him at the same bar wit the same cousen and again his causen was wit another lady at the door trying to get her to kiss him and stuff and ma husbend was just there in the parking lot alone so thats how it all started he dont hang out wit them cause i guess he figured all he does is get in truble wit me when he is around them but sence then are problems started cause i became a lil cold wit him and we started to argue alot and that let to no kisses,i love u's,or sex and its wierd cause we had sex every day we could send the kids out to play just so we could have sex

i already tried ad he said well do u know something or why do u keep on acuzing me.like a few days ago my phone was not working and i called ma cell phone privider and they fix it so all the text started coming in from 2 days before and i got one from him saying "ok i am taking off in 20 min" and ihe had just been on the phone like 15 min before so when i got it i asked him sorry but where u trying to send this to someone else cause i am here and u are here so why would u send me a text saying tht and he fliped and told me why do u thing shit like that why dont u trust me anymore wat did i do to u and i told him everything and he was just silent