omg...i dont know where to start...i adopted a litlle 4 day old little girl but i have realised i know ntn about kids. ok let me tell you why i adopted... so there were these two kids who decided to have sex and got pregnant and tried to leave the baby in the hospital without anyone being aware of it. i found out and took her, went shopping and everything but now she is home i am confused. i am 25yrs and starting to think this was a bad idea.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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on Jul. 31, 2012 at 7:18 PM
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on Jul. 31, 2012 at 7:23 PM
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Get into a parenting class pronto. Also you may need to give her up to a foster agency since you did not sign any papers saying you were the adopter the children chose.
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Take a deep breath.
I know when I brought my son home from the hospital I felt the same way.
What are the issues that you need help with? Do you have any family or friends with kids that can help?
I know when I brought my son home from the hospital I felt the same way.
What are the issues that you need help with? Do you have any family or friends with kids that can help?
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on Jul. 31, 2012 at 7:25 PM
As long as its all legal for u to be her caretaker/mom then I say parenting classes ASAP!
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on Jul. 31, 2012 at 7:26 PM
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I think that's any new mom's first reaction but is the adoption legal? They don't just let people take babies from the hospital & sign the papers over to whoever will take it! They have to do background checks etc to make sure your a good fit the baby has to go to the state & it takes a while for the paperwork to get finalized so I'm kinda confused when you say you adopted her
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How do you deal with a potty mouth?!
- mommykor
on Jul. 31, 2012 at 7:18 PM