My 4 year old won't potty train! He does just fine for urine, but he still poops in his pants about 75% of the time. I am so tired of changing poopy underwear its not even funny. I always seem to to get shit on my hands somehow. He already did a year at preschool and he never did poop in the toilet there either. He only peed in the potty like 3 times and then started holding it until I picked him up. A few times his teacher had to change his underwear for him. I am going to be enrolling him in a different school because we moved and they said they will enroll him even if he isn't fully potty trained but that we needed to keep teaching him. But I don't know what they will do if he poops himself. I don't have a car and walking to the school to change him would take like 20 minutes. I shouldn't have to be changing shitty pants on a 4 year old! But most of the time when I try to get him to sit on the potty he doesn't want to and if if I try and make him he throws a fit. Forcing him won't do any good because even if I hold him there on the toilet he isn't going to poop. When he poops his pants and I have to force him to be changed I have to drag him into the bathroom with him kicking and hitting me the whole way. He would love it if I were to just let him walk around with poopy pants but I can't do that. Help! He starts at his new school on the 15th.