Born & bred southern and love sweet iced tea!! The problem is my DH loves it too. But he can't make it (or says he can't). He says he gets brown water or it is too sweet. I have shown him how to make it countless times. He was going threw a large pitcher per day! I rarely ever got any but I ALWAYS made it! He went and got another pitcher so I could make more tea every day. When I complain(often) he says 'the only thing I ask you to do is make tea and wash the dishes"! Hello! I am the one who works everyday! When I was unemployed and he was working I had dinner ready or cooking when he got home, the house was reasonably neat and I did everything! He does pack my lunch everyday and he does most of the household chores. But unless he gets a yearning for something I cook dinner. He gets sassy when I throw something in the microwave for a fast meal. It has caused quiet a few fights between us. And he gets mad when I cuss him but it is fine for him to cuss me! I really hate him sometimes!!