Overcoming Bad Habits, the JoAnn from Bensonhurst Way!

Great last statement , Bad habits make bad first impressions <3 Thanks JoAnn

My hubby has a few but they aren't unbearable, because I am sure I have some bad habits he hates to without knowing it lol...

Lets see...
-he doesn't pick up his clothe
-doesn't pick up his trash
-when he pees if it doesn't go in the toilet it doesn't get cleaned up until I clean
-he chews tobacco and leaves the spit cans everywhere, he spits in the trash cans and the smell is awful :(

His oldest son is learning some of these habits as well and they are driving me crazy :(

workoholic, but lazy at home and with family, poor money management, doesnt clean the sink when he shaves, leaves the cap off the toothpaste, throws recycling in the trash, he forgets deodorant, bites his nails..... Just to name a few. He drives me crazy, rarely does ANYTHING right. But hes dumb and I love him, not to mention he makes me laugh, buys me flowers, pays the bills. The good stuff is rare, but ten years together and we still manage.

OMG, that sounds like my husband too! Well, he does laundry and cleaning once in awhile, so I guess I can give him that for picking up after himself. But man, those tobacco chews really gross me out! =(

Quoting mering88:

Lets see...
-he doesn't pick up his clothe
-doesn't pick up his trash
-when he pees if it doesn't go in the toilet it doesn't get cleaned up until I clean
-he chews tobacco and leaves the spit cans everywhere, he spits in the trash cans and the smell is awful :(

His oldest son is learning some of these habits as well and they are driving me crazy :(

Lol. He will only do laundry if he needs pants for work and even then there is a chance he will just keep wearing the dirty pairs. After my c-section he told me that he would help with the housework. His was doing the bare minimum. Laundry was piled up and the kitchen was a disaster. So 2 weeks pp, I ended up just doing it.

Quoting kalexer:

OMG, that sounds like my husband too! Well, he does laundry and cleaning once in awhile, so I guess I can give him that for picking up after himself. But man, those tobacco chews really gross me out! =(

Quoting mering88:

Lets see...

-he doesn't pick up his clothe

-doesn't pick up his trash

-when he pees if it doesn't go in the toilet it doesn't get cleaned up until I clean

-he chews tobacco and leaves the spit cans everywhere, he spits in the trash cans and the smell is awful :(



His oldest son is learning some of these habits as well and they are driving me crazy :(

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There's a few......

Not picking up or cleaning up after himself. Usually because he's in a hurry. He will shave but not clean the sink etc

Leaving dirty clothes and socks on the floor when there's a hamper only a few feet away.

Loud sneezes.

Spitting outside in public.

I don't consider leaving the toilet seat up a "bad habit". When did this get started, anyway, that men have to put it down? I am a full-fledged adult, with eyes. I am fully capable of looking to see if the seat is up or down, and adjusting it as my needs dictate. Who says men have to cater to women?

Sounds like my husband too. He is a workaholic but lazy at home. He drinks all da time. He cooks n leaves all da dishes he uses out dirty. He uses towels n leave them everywher n he snores bad, but he does pay all da bills, take me out some times and tries to b lovy dovy sometimes, so i just hang on to da good stuff

Quoting kristalee83:

workoholic, but lazy at home and with family, poor money management, doesnt clean the sink when he shaves, leaves the cap off the toothpaste, throws recycling in the trash, he forgets deodorant, bites his nails..... Just to name a few. He drives me crazy, rarely does ANYTHING right. But hes dumb and I love him, not to mention he makes me laugh, buys me flowers, pays the bills. The good stuff is rare, but ten years together and we still manage.