I do not want to start a debate about abortion on here so please stop the hate now before you even post.
My best friend is in a crappy relationship with a crappy guy. I don't even need to go into all the details. But when she found out she was pregnant. she was soooo excited. She always said, even if she gets rid of this crappy guy, she is excited for this baby. My friend was adopted and always said she could never have an abortion bc that would be the only person blood related to her she knows.
Anyways, She has known for over a month now, ultrasounds, and buying onesies. Told everyone. etc. but her and this guy are still going downhill, and she has decided she wants an abortion. I have never had a problem with abortion bc its not my body so its not my decision, but I am absolutely heart broken bc she was so excited for this baby and planning it and everything, and now all of a sudden, she sees that they aren't ready for kids, she isn't ready with or without him and she wants to figure out who she is first.
I don't think I would be so heartbroken if she made this choice closer to finding out, but now, I am devastated. I was excited for that baby too. I almost feel like she is just scared and confused and that she is going to regret this. How can you buy onesies, and then decide you don't want that baby you imagined wearing it anymore.
What do I say to her? I can't say don't do it, or anything, because it is not my choice. I want to support her in whatever she dcides, but I have literally just been crying all morning. OMG. She is just going to tell everyone she had a miscarriage.