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Very TMI and it may be removed but I need help

Posted by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 11:37 PM
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My DH said I broke his penis! During oral sex I nipped too hard and it started bleeding. But we didn't stop making love. It healed and he never mentioned it. again...until now. He says I broke it and it no longer works?!?! He is not circumcised and now he says the skin has almost grown closed over it. DUH!!! If you never pull it back what do you think happens? Before I would pull the foreskin over the head of his penis and he would groan and his penis would become erect. Now he says I cracked the skin and broke it. I am going crazy wanting him and he told me to get a mechanical device!! He refuses to see a doctor. Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions?

Posted by on Sep. 23, 2012 at 11:37 PM
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kgsharber
by Bronze Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:01 AM
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 So his foreskin has reattached? He just has to slowly pull it back day by day. And side note, that is disgusting! He should be pulling it back daily for cleaning. I hope you don't have boys & he is in charge of their hygene bc he clearly has NO CLUE!

rayroe2
by Bronze Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:03 AM

 I was writing it so that was MY feeling.
me either.
This wouldn't have happen to a cut penis because there would be no skin that could close, now  it could get a cut on it and you just gotta wait til it is healed but the penis still would be working afterwards. I never heard of broken penis but I don't know how a penis is when it has the skin, I only know what my man has.

Quoting Alejandra10:

No you didn't say I feel like this is why your said THIS IS WHY...
then you said so YOU don't run...

Now me personally I could careless what other do or don't your kids your choice your hubby your choice. But I just think this can happen both ways


Quoting rayroe2:

 I never said you need to do anything...I just said what ( I ) felt.


Quoting Alejandra10:

So we need to circumcised so my sons wife don't accidently bite on him I think this could happen either way circumcised or not it can bleed and it can break these are things that accidentally happen this didn't happen because he wasn't circumcised


Quoting rayroe2:


 so you don't run into problems like this.



Quoting Alejandra10:

Why?



Quoting rayroe2:



 this is why boys need to be circ.



 


 

 

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Alejandra10
by Bronze Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:03 AM
How long has it been since it happened.
Maybe you can find a clinic that will let you guys get on a payment plan. some will let you pay in payments I would talk to him and encourage him to get checked out in the long run it can get worse. Maybe find a male doctor hope he feels better just try and convince him to get it checked out


Quoting SexyTeacher:

He is 49 and circumcision is not an option now.


 


rayroe- don't care what you think needs to be done I am asking for help!  So shut up if you can't help.


He is embarassed to go to the doc and he doesn't have insurance. He can still get it up but not to full size or even enough for oral sex.

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Elly219
by Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:04 AM
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Quoting rayroe2:

 why is that amyyybelle? Because you disagree with getting the skin cut so I am dumb because I don't believe what you believe? YOU WIN, hail down to the smartest bitch here....watch out NO ONE CAN SAY ANYTHING AMYBELLE DONT AGREE WITH you be deemed dumb by the Queen of smarts

Quoting Amybelle:


Quoting rayroe2:

 this is why boys need to be circ.

I don't know which is dumber, this post or your reply.........I take that back. You "win" hands-down

 

 

SexyTeacher
by Gold Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:04 AM

He pulls it back enough to clean it daily. But he says even that hurts. We only have one girl so we don't have that problem LOL

I do like the idea of a warm bath and neosporin. I will mention that to him.

VintageWife
by on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:07 AM

My boys are circ'd. I just like to hear more valid arguments when people are saying why they do or don't...lol 

Quoting rayroe2:

 rarely, you hear more stories about men that still have the skin.....lol

For the readers: (I don't care what you do with your child's ping pings! I just feel that it is best and I know others don't agree, I am not here to make y'all agree or to try and "convince" others of my beliefs.)

Quoting VintageWife:

Because penis problems never happen to circ'd men?!? Wow...

Quoting rayroe2:

 so you don't run into problems like this.

Quoting Alejandra10:

Why?

Quoting rayroe2:

 this is why boys need to be circ.

 

 

 

 

Rhiannon92
by Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:10 AM

According to medical professionals who are UP TO DATE on the latest research and statistics, there is NO medical benefit from being circumcised. At least, not a notable one.

It isn't difficult to teach proper hygiene. I mean, as women we have to keep ourselves clean. We learn how early on and it becomes part of our routine. Just like for men who are intact. Not difficult at all.

It is not NECESSARY for a male to be circumcised. ( except for certain medical conditions and situations that warrant it ). 

Your comment was ridiculous.

Quoting rayroe2:

 why is that amyyybelle? Because you disagree with getting the skin cut so I am dumb because I don't believe what you believe? YOU WIN, hail down to the smartest bitch here....watch out NO ONE CAN SAY ANYTHING AMYBELLE DONT AGREE WITH you be deemed dumb by the Queen of smarts

Quoting Amybelle:


Quoting rayroe2:

 this is why boys need to be circ.

I don't know which is dumber, this post or your reply.........I take that back. You "win" hands-down

 


momma_23girls
by on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:11 AM
That seems like the best bet. He's gotta know its going to hurt like a mutha but he's gotta do it anyway. Good luck. I hope he gets it taken care of.


Quoting SexyTeacher:

He pulls it back enough to clean it daily. But he says even that hurts. We only have one girl so we don't have that problem LOL


I do like the idea of a warm bath and neosporin. I will mention that to him.


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Amybelle
by on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:11 AM


Quoting Elly219:

 

Quoting rayroe2:

 why is that amyyybelle? Because you disagree with getting the skin cut so I am dumb because I don't believe what you believe? YOU WIN, hail down to the smartest bitch here....watch out NO ONE CAN SAY ANYTHING AMYBELLE DONT AGREE WITH you be deemed dumb by the Queen of smarts

Quoting Amybelle:


Quoting rayroe2:

 this is why boys need to be circ.

I don't know which is dumber, this post or your reply.........I take that back. You "win" hands-down

 

 

so you're uneducated too. I'd suggest doing some research &  getting informed but I doubt either of you would.

rayroe2
by Bronze Member on Sep. 24, 2012 at 12:12 AM

 Right, I don't really have an argument because I don't feel like being quoted a million times of how it is not vaild or people feel I am trying to make them agree with me because if you google there are a lot of facts about both ways

Quoting VintageWife:

My boys are circ'd. I just like to hear more valid arguments when people are saying why they do or don't...lol 

Quoting rayroe2:

 rarely, you hear more stories about men that still have the skin.....lol

For the readers: (I don't care what you do with your child's ping pings! I just feel that it is best and I know others don't agree, I am not here to make y'all agree or to try and "convince" others of my beliefs.)

Quoting VintageWife:

Because penis problems never happen to circ'd men?!? Wow...

Quoting rayroe2:

 so you don't run into problems like this.

Quoting Alejandra10:

Why?

Quoting rayroe2:

 this is why boys need to be circ.

 

 

 

 

 

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