It's ok don't stress. If she asks just tell her you were wrestling or something, lol. When my ds was 3 he peeked in on us. I went out and asked him what mommy and daddy were doing , he said "a rockin' and a rollin'" lol
My daughter crawled ito bed while her father and I were "ejjoying" each other. I didn't notice she was there until we were done. I looked at her and asked her what the matter was..."I'm hungry" ...so I got up and fixed her breakfast.
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My daughter's recently barged in on me and my husband. We thought the door was locked, but apparently it hadn't latched right. One is 9 the other is 4. All they saw was us kissing covered up with blankets, but still...AWKWARD. I'm not concerned about the 4 year old, but the 9 year old know's more than she's letting on. Cuz now, everytime we say it's bed time, she says "Yea, cuz mama and daddy want to kiss!" I'm so embarrassed and afraid to to anything now while my kids are awake!! I'm sure it's normal, but still very awkward. ![]()
Quoting Anjlmom32:My daughter's recently barged in on me and my husband. We thought the door was locked, but apparently it hadn't latched right. One is 9 the other is 4. All they saw was us kissing covered up with blankets, but still...AWKWARD. I'm not concerned about the 4 year old, but the 9 year old know's more than she's letting on. Cuz now, everytime we say it's bed time, she says "Yea, cuz mama and daddy want to kiss!" I'm so embarrassed and afraid to to anything now while my kids are awake!! I'm sure it's normal, but still very awkward.
That is embarrassing and awkward but did you ever talk to the 9 year old about it? I feel like at that age it's ok to talk about somethings so that she doesn't eventually go to friends in the years to come to learn things. Just my opinion. I completely get its embarrassing. :/
Thru channels, explaining that they are kissing and cuddling. I explained when two ADULTS are so very much in love like me and daddy, that we like to be alone so we can kiss and cuddle. That it is NOT ok for children to act in that way until they grow up into adults too. And I have had the "good touch/bad touch" talk with both of my girls...age appropriate...several times. Still makes it awkward that she caught us in the act. :/
Quoting JuliannaRenee:Quoting Anjlmom32:My daughter's recently barged in on me and my husband. We thought the door was locked, but apparently it hadn't latched right. One is 9 the other is 4. All they saw was us kissing covered up with blankets, but still...AWKWARD. I'm not concerned about the 4 year old, but the 9 year old know's more than she's letting on. Cuz now, everytime we say it's bed time, she says "Yea, cuz mama and daddy want to kiss!" I'm so embarrassed and afraid to to anything now while my kids are awake!! I'm sure it's normal, but still very awkward.
That is embarrassing and awkward but did you ever talk to the 9 year old about it? I feel like at that age it's ok to talk about somethings so that she doesn't eventually go to friends in the years to come to learn things. Just my opinion. I completely get its embarrassing. :/




- KourtneyW
on Oct. 3, 2012 at 5:40 PM