IMO- I think it is incredibly sad that people have to be legally FORCED to care for their own child. I think CS should be used in the best way possible for the child's benefit.
I also think it's highly irresponsible to walk away from one child to just go make another one with another person. A parent's responsibilities do not end when they create another life, and the second, third or even the fourth family needs to recognize that the first child should not go without because a parent goes on to create MORE obligations....
I really wish the law could be reworked so that CS is paid/enforced so that children don't have to suffer. Haven't they already suffered enough? Their families are broken up, they are being forced to join "new families" or carelessly left behind. I think kids have enough crap in their lives to last a lifetime-and often it does last that long! SMDH
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