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How would you react?

Posted by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 6:27 AM
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My husband went into my purse, took the money for bills, drove to the store hammered out of his mind, and blew three hundred dollars on scratch offs.
He actually came into the bedroom, told me he messed up when he was halfway through the cash, apologized and looked all sad, but then proceeded to go back out and blue the rest.
I'm very angry, this isn't the first time he's born so much money, but it is the first time he took out from my purse.
I'm about fed up.
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motherhood is not a race..u can't outdo one another..u go go ur own speed.
Yesterday at 2:56 AM
by Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 6:43 AM
i would go the hell off .. that bs .girl u need to hide ur money or get him help or leave.. sounds to me like he needs help.. he would be paying me back plus sum..
AM-BRAT
by Amber on Oct. 9, 2012 at 6:51 AM
Idk if I could be with someone like that.

If you stay on and work through it, find a better way to get rhe money where it's going other than having cash on hand.
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Bmat
by Barb on Oct. 9, 2012 at 7:04 AM

Hide the money, and credit cards. He has an addiction problem.

-PB
by Gold Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 7:16 AM

 I absolutely could not be with someone like that.  I would leave.

Megan11587
by Bronze Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 7:19 AM
Please tell me you handle the bills. I would be afraid of things not being paid if not
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NookBoookMom
by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 7:31 AM
Wow, I would give him an ultimatum, go to rehab or its over I would be livid
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AleaKat
by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 7:33 AM
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His shit would be in the front yard with the sprinkler on!
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prdmama1154
by Bronze Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 7:55 AM
I'm starting to feel the same but was worried I was overacting.

Quoting -PB:

 I absolutely could not be with someone like that.  I would leave.

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prdmama1154
by Bronze Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 7:56 AM
I handle them. I don't usually have cash on me like that, but I also don't think I should have to worry that my husband would steal it.

Quoting Megan11587:

Please tell me you handle the bills. I would be afraid of things not being paid if not
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prdmama1154
by Bronze Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 7:58 AM
I never have cash like that. I didn't think he would ever do this. If I did, I would have hidden it :(
Now we're screwed.


Quoting AM-BRAT:

Idk if I could be with someone like that.

If you stay on and work through it, find a better way to get rhe money where it's going other than having cash on hand.
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