A little background, soon to be SD is 14 and rapidly turning into the spawn that is a teenage girl. She lives with her dad (my fiance) and up until he started dating me she ran the house. I mean down to taking over the large closet in the master bedroom and the master bath.
Since this school year has started, her attitude has became increasingly worse. And I know a good chunk of it is her age. She has decided that she wants to date a senior boy and her dad has really cracked down on her because of this. He gave her phone back to her today (been grounded for a month), and he told her that if she texts the senior boy she will no longer have a phone. She got mad and wanted to know why she couldn't text or date the boy and again my fiance told her. After that she spewed out that she didn't want him to get married, that everything was going to change, and she liked things the way the are.
Now I'm not worried about my fiance breaking up with me because she is having a fit. I just don't know how to proceed with her. Of course I want her to like me and I'm not trying to take her mother's place. But I do want to get along. Any suggestions?
"Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe."