Am I being childish or do I have a right to be pissed??

IDK if you're right or not, but it is rude to ignore the guests. At the very least explain why you're going to leave them to go to bed

Why is at that you think you are being bitch??? He's a grown man...if He wants to have people over to watch a football game and cook them steak why do you have to be in the middle of it?? It's not anything you planned and you didn't invite them . I wouldn' feel bad about it. I wouldn't clean up after all of them either. His party His guests His mess. If he says something about it remind him of what the plans actually were and that he dumped this on the entire family. If I were you I'd be pissed that he pulled this crap to start with and let you clean everything by yourself was wrong.

 I don't agree with this at all.  They are not her guests, they are her husbands guests.  She doesn't owe them an explanation. 

I'd be willing to bet that they don't even care that she isn't "entertaining" them.

Quoting IheartPEACOCKS:

IDK if you're right or not, but it is rude to ignore the guests. At the very least explain why you're going to leave them to go to bed

There really is no separation of your friends and mine in a marriage. And they're in her house, she doesn't have to entertain them but she is right that they probably think she's bitchy for avoiding everyone

Quoting offrdngal:

 I don't agree with this at all.  They are not her guests, they are her husbands guests.  She doesn't owe them an explanation. 

I'd be willing to bet that they don't even care that she isn't "entertaining" them.

Quoting IheartPEACOCKS:

IDK if you're right or not, but it is rude to ignore the guests. At the very least explain why you're going to leave them to go to bed

 

I agree. I understand being upset that he made those plans without you, and if you're tired I get not wanting to entertain. But they are in your house, you should have at least said, sorry had a long day with the kids. Even if they aren't your friends it's still your house so it's rude to just hide in the bedroom without saying anything

Quoting IheartPEACOCKS:

There really is no separation of your friends and mine in a marriage. And they're in her house, she doesn't have to entertain them but she is right that they probably think she's bitchy for avoiding everyone

Quoting offrdngal:

 I don't agree with this at all.  They are not her guests, they are her husbands guests.  She doesn't owe them an explanation. 

I'd be willing to bet that they don't even care that she isn't "entertaining" them.

Quoting IheartPEACOCKS:

IDK if you're right or not, but it is rude to ignore the guests. At the very least explain why you're going to leave them to go to bed

 

Quoting IheartPEACOCKS:

IDK if you're right or not, but it is rude to ignore the guests. At the very least explain why you're going to leave them to go to bed

Quoting IheartPEACOCKS:

IDK if you're right or not, but it is rude to ignore the guests. At the very least explain why you're going to leave them to go to bed

I don't think you're being a bitch. I would have explained that I wasn't feeling well but you hope they had a great time. No, they weren't your guests and you didn't want them there but your dh did invite them. I would have been nice to them because they didn't know your plans or how you feel about company. I try to never be rude to guests in my home, even if I didn't want them here (there have been some exceptions). I would also be making sure dh cleaned up after himself and his guests.