We have an odd situation. My husband was transferred to work in MN, 6 hours away from any of our family. So we moved. We have no friends/family around, with the exception of one very busy friend. I am a SAHM and student. He works 4 days on, 4 days off. 13 hour shifts, overnights, he runs a Walmart. I do all the housework, meals, bills, and pet care (we have a dog and cat). We always argue over how much he should have to pitch in with watching our son. We don't get breaks at all, unless we travel to visit our families. On the days he works, we see him maybe an hour, and he is a zombie (not good for conversation!). His first day off, he is...a zombie. I know he is working hard, but I want him to do more with our son, or do the dishes once a week or something. What should I be able to ask from him that is fair?