there are times when i raise my voice because it seems like nothing else works, at times she gets a pat on the butt, but i cant help but feel completely guilty after.
now what i am asking is when is the proper time to use spanking and yelling, even if it is a low yell?
and what are some things that you use for a toddler that seems to never listen? i love my daughter with all my heart but nothing really seems to work. im starting to lose my mind a bit.