My 8 yr old daughter was diagnosed with adhd and my family thinks I want to give her meds to take the easy way out. Her dad has adhd but they just think he's hyper and I'm impatient. She gets in trouble at school and on the bus. She's physically abusive especially to me. We've tried the groundings and taken stuff away. Nothing seems to work. Any moms going through the same thing and how do you deal with it?