My family recently moved.into a new house 2 months ago. My brother lives with us. He met a neighbor and introduced him and his wife to my dh. Dh introduced them to me and we all became friend even our kids played together and the wife would gives them rides to school. Well I stated noticing that my dh was spending alot of time at their house they would smoked together and play a video game but she was always around. I started noticing that she was doing wierd things and shying away from me but texting and calling my dh even about little things. I told him she liked her and he denied it saying he dont pay attention to her. so many things have happened that its too many to list..but one day she text his phone that shge need him in the worst wat and I went crazy I flipped out!!! My dh says he dont know why and her dh ors just acting kind of wierd and nonchalant. she apologized nd says my dh did nothing...nd her dh says nothing happened. The day everything happened I had to work that evening and my dh called her and talked for almost an hour. He says he was trying to find out what was going on (she gave me 3 different reasons all pointing all of the blame on her) but I feel betrayed!!! By both of them...it seems estuarine he goes out the door or I'm not with him I get a, sinking feeling. I think that they may b talking from her dh phone then I think that they are having 3somes or her dh is just allowing this and dont care. He is still friend with her dh and even goes over there to smoke and play game with her dh despite my wishes for him not, to. He told me to b cordial to her for the kids sake (they still play together) my dh told met nothing happend and has admitted to talking to" her on phone. she would vent and rag on her dh all the time and says she wanted my dh to talk to him about things to give advice. I'm confused and hurt but I feel like they slept together. I dont want to over analyze the situation but it seems something is going on...he says I just need to trust him and not put her actions on him......my heart shatters everyday.....
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