me and all my friends have been friends for years. like 10. And we were all pretty insestuous. my friend andrew met when he dated my best friend in highschool, we stayed friends after she broke his heart. i became friends afterwards with the girl who took his virginity, and ironically introduced her to the guy who took mine, they have two kids now. we are ALL still friends.Andrew even lived with us through my 2nd pregnancy. my 1st son knows him and loves him. he babysits for us.
lately theres been comments because me and my husband decided to give each other one night a week. i use mine to go out with andrew and my girlfriend (who took his virginity etc). When she can't go, we still go. other people are assuming im stepping out on my husband with him, and my husband is "making jokes" which i was always told that jokes start ut in a serious place.
I don't know how to handle the situation. i really don't want to loose my friends, ive lost so many by having children and getting married. they are trustworthy and loyal. But my husband makes jokes that are becoming concerning to me. When i want to talk about it he assures me they were just in jest.