PLEASE FIRST OFF THE LAST THING I NEED RIGHT NOW IS BASHING!
Im so depressed I love my husband but idk what to do about the skeletons in the closet.. so to speak.
My husband was sexting girls the whole time we were together before we got married (i didnt find out till after we were married and i was pregnant). We talked about it and he said he stopped 2 weeks before we got married. (im not making excuses but alot of stressful things happened to him and he was depressed alot the whole time and never got help). A few days ago I went to get a phone # off his email and I found a bunch of girls email addresses in his contacts. Well that peaked my interest so i snooped a little more and found he sent 1 message to a girl since weve been married all it said was can i have more pics.(she never answered and he said it stopped there) she had some sexy(slutty) pics up on craigslist and thats what he was talking about. ( now when this was sent i was at my families vacation home with my kids for about a week a little more 10 days).
(TMI) and just so everyone knows we are very passionate still neither one of us can even kiss the other without getting a little HOT lol
I know i have a right to get upset but I also dont know how to really proceed now. We obviously talked about it and he said we can go to counseling because he feels he needs it to deal with his past as well as his present.
Can anyone give me any advice?