As an adult the Holiday suck! I mean I love seeing my DD smile when we decorate our tree or bake cookies together but it's the Grandparents that ruin it for me. I have never had a Holiday where both my parents AND my in-laws were happy. DH and I do the SAME thing every year yet each year either my side or his side decides something about our plans bother them & I have to hear about it. Trying to get Thanksgiving figured out was horrible and there's still Christmas to deal with. Guess I just need to realize that I can't make everyone happy.