So my df and I never seem to be on the same page with our sex drives. ill go several days in a row where sex is all I can think about (i have a pretty high drive, and he used to) and guys won't be in the mood or gets annoyed that I'm coming on to.him too much. that happened this past week, I was ready to go all week and practically had to bug him for sex. then I got a nasty cold and felt like hell, couldn't be less interested and he was all over me. even rolled me over onto my stomach and "put it in" as he phrases it despite the fact I said I was tired and.didn't really want to. for the ladies that might throw the rape care out there I was laughing at him when I told him no so I don't think he really took me seriously. Another problem is that he sometimes goes through phases where he rarely wants to do it and when he does its a wham bam thank you ma'am kind of thing. today he was all over me, I'm still getting over a cold, was in the kitchen, his son was running around, and again I just wasn't feeling it. he tends to get locked into his video games for days at a time and doesn't understand why I am.not so turned on when.he. finally turns. it off and is ready to have sex real quick. tonight we had the house to ourselves, which is a rarity and I thought we could take our time some. he used to like to do that. but nope he just dove right in so to speak and I was left unsatisfied...again. and yes I've talked to him about it more than once. He's one of those who doesn't see the need for one on one time or quality time.because we live together and that apparently.extends to the bedroom. any ideas? Thanks for reading I know this was super long!
on Nov. 23, 2012 at 12:59 AM