Okay ladies, I'm 19. I have 16 month old daughter, and im currently 5 months pregnant as well. I'm young I know. but I am married, i got married at 17 to my husband he was 20. well.. we have not had an easy marriage. one thing after another. nothing seems to work out right for us. So he cheated in July, and I was devestated, and about a month later i had positive pregnancy test, so we decided to go to a marriage class for christians. it was working out, for me atleast.. but two days ago, i found out he was on a dating website, and trying to "have some fun." He works out of town every week with a tower climbing company, I'm devestated and don't know what to do. We live in Arizona with his family, and my family is in Virginia.. I want to leave because honestly, who does that to their pregnant wife?!? I can't stop crying, I hate myself and him. My family obviously wants me to come home to virginia, which looks like a great option, but his family is telling me to work on it, but i did the first time he cheated, and he did it again. I feel like they only want me to stay so I wont take their grandkids away, and they aren't seeing how hurt and disgusted I am. It's like everything is on me to work it out, but no one is chastizing him for what he has done. oh and I haven't talked to him, because he shut his phone off. he wont be home till tomorrow night, so i have no idea what he's doing three hours away. I'm just very confused and would love an outsiders point of view, should i stay or go?