I have a 5yr old dd and we were talking the other day about how her baby sister was going to get out of my stomach and I was explaining that she will come out of my vagina if everything goes well and if there's a problem the doctor will make a small cut in my tumm to get her out. So she says eww she's going to come out of your butt!?!? I told her not my butt but the front part which is called a vagina and all girls have them etc etc well she starts to blush and says I know what boys pee out of. My heart dropped and I tried to stay as calm as possible so that she wouldn't freak out and stop talking and I said oh really and how do you know that? And she tells me that her 7(almost8) yr old cousin made her watch him pee. Now we don't usually let dd play with him unsupervised because he just seems to be too huggy and kissy with dd plus he was molested when he was younger and I just never felt right with dd being alone with him. I don't know how to bring this up to my brother and sil. I feel they should know because what if he's making other girls watch him pee and what if it escalates?? Idk what to do. My sil is always wanting dd to come stay with them but I don't ever let her and I'm running out of excuses. How do I start this convo with my brother and sil???
on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:39 AM