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I think I had a

Posted by on Dec. 8, 2012 at 1:05 PM
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miscarriage...or it was a "chemical pregnancy" the only thing that has helped me get through it is by writing about it.  So here is a poem I wrote...Me and my husband weren't trying...and I was on BC but, the more I get to thinking about it, the more sad I get.  I always wanted three kids...and I was starting to get really excited...especially when I saw the positive line...but, maybe one day my husband will tell me to get off BC pills and we can start trying.  Don't think it will happen...but, there's always a chance for a man to change his mind, right?  



The Loss Of Something That Was Never There

 

How can you miss

Something that was never yours?

How much bliss

Are you missing out on with unopened doors?

 

The hope and certainty

Surrounding something that was never present

Could have turned out so perfectly.

Now I feel like I need an antidepressant

 

Although there is no real reason why

I just have to say my goodbyes

To a nameless being

Although I really want to go about disagreeing

 

Part of me wants to believe

That everything happens for a reason

But now I must be able to grieve

For this was not my season. 

 

It hurts to realize that others

Have gone through this exact thing

Soon to be mothers

Who have nothing to bring

 

Maybe soon we will try again

For our hopes are not gone

 Now I must say that this pain

Can never be drawn


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Jenn8604
by Gold Member on Dec. 8, 2012 at 1:20 PM
HUGS!!! Even if it was "a chemical pregnancy" it will hurt. My friend had one and she hurt over it too. HUGS!!
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