I have two children 1 son( Gabe) who is 21 a daughter (Amber) who is 20 years old. Needless to say, they are very close.
Anyway, I was hoping you guys could give me some advice. Amber has had one boyfriend for her life who never treated her how she should be treated and he has consistantly left her heartbroken, dissapointment after dissapointment. Their 4 year "relationship" ended about about a year and half ago and since then, Amber has been on dates with other guys and but refuses to commit to any of them. She is consistantly clamining "shes too independent for a boy"
I guess this just baffles me because all of her friends are in serious relationships.. wouldn't she want to be in one so they can do things together? It breaks my heart to see her unhappy and I know she is when she doesn't have plans on friday night because its "date night" for all her coupley friends. Is this normal? I was always in a relationship when I was her age and loved being loved. I'm afraid she is going to lose all these great guys chasing after her because she's too stubborn to let any of them in.
What should I do??
Thanks for listening,