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Need ideas/tips ANYTHING!!!

Posted by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 11:32 AM
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MY 4yr old hasn't been going to bed when I tell her to. She usually goes to bed when shes told but recently she wont listen. I read her stories and tuck her in etc but now shes been getting out of bed and asking for snacks and drinks and I tell her "NO" time to go to bed. Then she begs to come sleep in my bed...and the last like 3nights she's been in my bed and its a twin not much room for both of us. 

What Im asking is does anyone have any ideas on how to get her to stay in her bed at night without a problem?! 


Posted by on Dec. 12, 2012 at 11:32 AM
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MamaDee2Bee
by Member on Dec. 12, 2012 at 8:53 PM
Thanks for everyones comments and suggestions!! I didnt even have to fight with her tonite...she's already asleep IN HER BED!! She shares a room with her sibling...
KayDziedzic
by Bronze Member on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:03 PM

Just keep putting her back to bed every time she gets up, or it'll become harder and harder to break the habit :/

Consider a bed tent or a new pillow, maybe let her pick out a night light if she doesn't already have one.

Good luck!

JZB
by Bronze Member on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:04 PM
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Dreamer_02
by New Member on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:57 PM

I had that issue with my daughter and I sometimes still do. What helps me is just telling her that big girls sleep in their own room and just leaving it as that. My daughter would cry herself asleep but eventually got the drift that she has to sleep in her own room

rayroe2
by Bronze Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 12:12 AM
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I would spank her after the second warning.

CoeyG
by on Dec. 13, 2012 at 12:29 AM


Quoting rayroe2:

I would spank her after the second warning.

Why on earth would you hit a todler for this?  Goodness  do you bully all of your children?

rayroe2
by Bronze Member on Dec. 13, 2012 at 12:38 AM

how is that bullying? If my child gets out of bed and ask for a snack and I say NO go to bed and I keep putting her back in her bed and she doesn't stay or listens. That enough warnings and I will spank her. I don't care how you see that or your opinion on it either. Parents parent differently. I don't agree with how you talk down to your child like she is stupid but I didnt comment because that works for you and your family.

Quoting CoeyG:


Quoting rayroe2:

I would spank her after the second warning.

Why on earth would you hit a todler for this?  Goodness  do you bully all of your children?


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