i had plans made for christmas break and i had these plans made for long time. I was bummed out that i had to settle for my son leaving me for christmas because of friend of the court rulings. The x just left me a message tonight that he cannot keep the court ordered visitations. I have no experience in this and iv been ruled the primary parent. I love to be with my son but i had plans which i didnt want my son to be around and never have any help. Does any mom out there know about rulings on friend of the court and the ideas behind backing out of a court orederd visitation?