Okay so this has been bothering me, and I don't know how, or if I should address it. I have a son whom I raised on my own as a single mother his first two years of life. At that point I met and felt in love with my bf whom took my son as his own. And him and I later decided to have a daughter together. However, his father doesn't treat them equally as grandchildren. When her birthday rolls around she gets presents. My son does not. When Christmas comes around she gets presents, my son does not. This is really hurting my feelings that his father chooses not acknowledge my son as his grandson. Should I let it be or speak up to him or my bf?