What would you say to a family member who only wants to be apart of your life if there is something wrong? I was talking to my Mom the other day and telling her that I was going to the DR for a lump I found in my breast and she said that my Grandma wanted to know about things like that with me. I asked her why, since she doesn't want to be apart of my life any other times due to lies from my brother and my exdh. I used to be very close with my family and now not at all. I speak with my Mom all the time but the rest I just have backed away from them.
My brother has caused issues wtih the family and instead of stressing out over it I just let it be and am living my life the best way I can, I have a DH, DS and 7 SK I worry about. I go to school full time and I just dont have time for drama and lies ( I get enough of that from the SK BM).
Anyway, how would YOU deal with this? Would you just not say anything and keep to yourself or would you let her know if something way wrong?
OH and I have tried to make a mends with my family over and over and nothing ever happens. DS spend time with them, I wont keep him from them, but with me, its not the same.