I am 26 years old my oldest child is 6 years old. when he was almost 2 i was sent to prison. i have now been home for a year. while i was gone he lived with my grandparents. since ive been home i have been with him and have receltly gained custody back. i am now re married and have a two month old daughter. we have a nice home and have decked his room out for him but he just acts like he doesnt like me and he is just miserable all the time when hes with me. my grandparents and my mom have spoiled him rotten and my husband and i enforce rules. i go to his school sometimes to eat lunch with him, i carried cupcakes on his birthday, i do all the things i feel like a mom should do but... he has no feelings toward me and i hate to say this but i feel the same. i dont feel any connection with him. i feel so guilty that i feel this way. when my 2 month old was born he was a little jealous but now he just doesnt have anything to do with her either. i see him happy when hes at his grandparents and when i walk in its like doom comes in the room. i dont know if he is just not connected with me because i was gone or if it is just that they let him do what he wants and he would rather be with them for that reason... please help!!