Anyway, my issue at the moment. My aunt has a daughter that is 10 years old. My aunt called the other week saying that no one ever asks her daughter to spend the night not friends from school or family. Then asked if one day she could stay at my house. Issue? She had head lice a little over a week ago and I've been told my aunt has only been treating her daughters head and nothing in the house. Plus she has a bladder problem and always pees on my couch and my kids beds or floor. And it always stresses me out. With having 4 kids and preeclampsia Idk if its such a good idea for her to be here.(especially if there is a chance of lice) But now apparently she has it in her head that she is supposed to be staying over tomorrow night. Asking when I am coming to pick her up. I am not really a confrontational person and I definitely hate hurting peoples feelings. What should I do? I am at a loss.