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WHAT WOULD YOU DO THINK?!

Posted by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 3:59 PM
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DH's phone has been going off since around Christmas time to the point where it'll be going off multiple times a NIGHT. Like 3 in the morning...He tells me that it's just junk mail or it's nothing. Then he told me he's playing words with friends....Well I logged onto his computer. His email that was there I admit it was wrong but i looked at it. 

This is what I found:

His name is different than his real name...He has his name registered as Chris on this email.

He has a sent email from his email to a girl who wrote him saying that she is a stripper hoping to become a model. He wrote her back saying, "Visit your site" 

He also has friend in his friends list that isn't work.....

What am I suppose to think of those??? He also has been really guardy over hsi phone. I can't look at it or play with it. He's always taking it with him wherever he goes now.


by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 3:59 PM
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MeghMirab
by Meghan on Jan. 14, 2013 at 4:10 PM

My husband gets messages, especially on twitter from girls he's never heard of. I have also. It's mildly disturbing how easy it is to get all sorts of smutty spam. I was not OK with it at first but with phones come spam. If you are really that concerned you can look up the numbers coming in on the phone bill and call them. (: Quick and easy! Assuming he has a smart phone there should be a full layout of his phone calls, text messages and Internet usage. Good luck! Hope it's just spam! I want to add that I got a text the other day and it was completely inappropriate! Implying I was talking to someone out of my marriage and basically cheating. Ridiculous! I showed my husband and asked who the heck this person was... we googled it and found out it's just spamming. They do it through text messages now. So lame!

robyann
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 4:28 PM

 The fact that he is overly protective of his phone is a red flag to me. If my dh acted like he didn't want me to see what was on his phone, then logically, I'd know there was something on there he was hiding.

Your dh may not be having a physical affair. It could be just talking, or it could be just looking at porn. You really can't say until he admits it or you find something out. GL

UpSheRises
by Bronze Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 4:35 PM

You don't need to ask mama...you know whats going on.

That must have been hard to read. Sorry thats happening to you :(

nessa20mommy2
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 5:28 PM

hmm I would say dig a little bit or A LOT!

OHgirlinCA
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 5:36 PM

I'd be very suspicious if I were you. Trust your gut. It's usually right.

crazedmommyof2
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 5:52 PM

I would ask to see his phone, if he doesn't then ask why? My SO can pick up my phone anytime and I wouldnt think anything about it. I have nothing to hide so if it was as innocent as hes making it out to be then it wouldn't bother him any for you to check it. Sorry you have to worry about what ifs and what is he up to, hope it works itself out for the best!

atlmom2
by Ruby Member on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:38 PM
If you are suspicious, you are probably right. Something iis probably going on.
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jakesmom323
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 6:41 PM
Sounds like he's either attempting to cheat or is cheating:(
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