hi my name is lisa, my husband and i have 2 boys together, and one day out of the blue he tells me he isnt in love with me anymore. and now he wants to live apart. from day one with our boys he has always been there to help and now im going to have to do it alone. and i dont know if i can, i have always had is help. and now im not going to have it like i have always was had his help.