how to do it alone.

awe i'm sorry this has happened to you :( *hugs*
i've been there tho and altho its not easy you CAN do it ;) its just an instinct that takes over when ya gotta do it. Good Luck

You can still coparent. Try focusing on how to work together as parents.


Good luck! I have coparented for many years.

It will be rough, but its possible. Hugs! Its been over 2 years since the split 9 months since the divorce finalized. Cs is a need must have help. Every weekend to every other weekend visits help. Or a week here week there, midation can help with the schedual kinks. But trust me, my exh said the same thing and was having an affair with my married ex friend. It will be rough, there will be highs and lows. But it will get easier. I didnt believe it when it first happened when my friends who have been there said it would. But it does, and its still an up hill battle at times but one foot in front of the other will get you far. Food stamps housing help and child care help is out there. I used them till I could get my feet back under me. And now im looking to buy my own first house. Me a single mom! Hugs!

Sorry to hear, that must be tough. I would say to seek some family, friends or community support and start bulding an emotional support base first. Once you conquer the emotional aspect of things for you and your sons then you can look into resources for everything else. He will still have responsibilities and obligations to you all. Hang in there.

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

Please check out the Single Moms group, too - they know exactly what you're going through and can give you more advice and support. ((HUGS))

I'm sorry you are going through this. :(

thanks everyone

 I have been a single mom to two boys so I know how you feel. You can do this! Just keep your focus on yourself and your boys.

Sorry your going through this but you will make it, your stronger than you think. How old are your boys?

they are 3 and 20 months