Hi. My ds is 2 yrs. old now but this was a past issue. I have gotten over it. But, I really am curious to know real opinions. When I was preg. with my ds, I thought that I would get a baby shower but I didn't. My mom and sisters wanted to throw me one and asked me, but I do have a sil and I thought she would do one for me. My sil lives in another state, but by traveling with a plane it takes almost 2 hours, It really isnt too far from me. But, I told my mom, that she didnt have to do it for me, cause I was guessing my own sil would do one, since she is part of the family I'm married too. I guessed it was more proper for someone from my new family would throw a baby shower for me. So, as time passed she didnt ever even ask me or mention it on the phone, because we do talk on the phone sometimes. I felt kinda rejected. I gave it time, and as the delivery time drew near I still didnt get one. I was disappointed a little bit. I ended up not having a baby shower and another thing is that I never confronted her. Was this my fault? I don't think it really was, I was the pregnant woman just wondering and waiting. But one thing my sil did do is after my baby was 1 month old she flew here, and stayed with me for a week and helped me out at my home and withe baby. I'm sure my mom and sisters felt bad for me, but I still got many baby gifts after my delivery from everyone.